When Life Throws You A Curveball
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Today, as we look at joining Christ on His mission we are going to look at the idea of being thrown curveballs and how to handle them. But what exactly is a curveball?
Definition
A curveball is a breaking pitch that has more movement than just about any other pitch. It is thrown slower than a fastball and curves downward before reaching home plate. It is used to keep hitters off-balance. When executed correctly by a pitcher, a batter expecting a fastball will swing too early and over the top of the curveball.
The curveball pitch is so well known in American culture that the phrase "throw a curveball" has emerged as a common expression. Like the goal of pitchers when throwing the pitch, the expression "to throw a curve" means to trick someone with something unexpected.
Again, the goal is to keep a person off balance with the hope of them making a mistake. Satan loves to use life experiences as curveballs with the intent to keep God’s people off balance and to slow them down in joining Christ on His mission. But we need to remember that while these curveballs are unexpected to us they are not unexpected to God. Not only are they not unexpected to God, they are planned and used by God for His purposes.
When it comes to living a life that is pleasing, honoring to God and on mission with Christ, life has a funny way of throwing us some crazy curveballs. The adventure of following Christ wherever he leads is filled with lots and lots of unexpected turns that the need to be prepared is for them is evident.
Biblical Examples Of Unexpected Curveballs Thrown At God’s People
· Shadrach, Meshach, Abednego certainly didn’t expect to be thrown into a firey furnance.
· Joseph didn’t see coming that his brothers would sell him as a slave.
· It wasn’t on Moses’ radar that his own countryman would threaten to turn him in for killing an Egyptian after the Egyptian had abused a Hebrew slave and then would spend the next 40 years tending sheep.
· Peter had no idea how idea how extreme the pressure to deny Christ would be on the night he denied Him three times.
· And the Apostle Paul had absolutely no idea that his passion and desire to go preach the Gospel to those in Asia would be stopped in its tracts by the Holy Spirit and then redirected to go into Macedonia.
So, how do you prepare for them and respond to these curveballs when they materialize?
Read what James 4:13-15 says,
“Come now, you who say, ‘Today or tomorrow we will travel to such and such a city and spend a year there and do business and make a profit.’ ‘Yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring - what your life will be! For you are like a vapor that appears for a little while, then vanishes. Instead, you should say, ‘If the Lord wills we will live and do this or that.’ But as it is, you boast in your arrogance. All such boasting is evil. So it is sin to know the good and yet not do it.”
In This Passage James:
· Is reprimanding Christians who have a faulty worldview about life and how they relate to God.
· Lists 5 characteristics of people with this faulty worldview:
They make their own plans about tomorrow: “Today or tomorrow we will go …”
They plan on arriving at a particular destination: “… we will go to such and such a city …”
They plan to spend a specific amount of time there: “… and spend a year there …”
They intend to engage in a specific plan of action: “… and engage in business …”
They intend to experience some specific results: “… and make a profit.”
So What’s The Problem? Is It Wrong To Make Plans For The Future?
No, that’s not what James is saying exactly! In verse 15 he is going to say it is appropriate to plan and act upon that plan. So, what’s the problem then?
The problem is when plans are made without a proper understanding of who we are and a proper understanding of who God is.
Who Are People?
a. People are limited in knowing what will happen tomorrow!
“Yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring …” (v. 14a)
b. People don’t even know if they will be here tomorrow!
“… what your life will be! For you are like a vapor that appears for a little while, then vanishes.” (v. 14b)
Who Is God?
He is the God who wills things to happen!
“Instead, you should say, ‘If the Lord wills, we will live and do this or that …”
In other words, God has the authority to change our plans to match His will.
“Men make their plans but God directs their paths.”
Proverbs 16:9
Let’s Look Again At
The Apostle Paul Wanting To Enter Into Asia
To Preach The Gospel
“They went through the region of Phrygia and Galatia; they had been forbidden by the Holy Spirit to speak the word in Asia. When they came to Mysia, they tried to go into Bithynia, but the Spirit of Jesus did not allow them. Passing by Mysia they went down to Troas. During the Night Paul had a vision in which a Macedonian man was standing and pleading with him, “Cross over to Macedonia and help us!’ After he ad seen the vision, we immediately made efforts to set out for Macedonia, concluding that God had called us to preach the gospel to them.”
Acts 16:6-10
From these verses we need to ask two very important questions!
2 Two Questions:
1. What was preventing them from sharing the Gospel in Asia and Bithynia?
On both occasions the scripture made it clear that is was the The Holy Spirit preventing them from entering those locations. Even though Paul’s intent was good and God honoring it wasn’t God’s timing for the Gospel to enter into Asia.
2. What was it that caused them to enter into Macedonia to preach the Gospel?
Again the answer is God. While it wasn’t God’s timing for the Gospel to go into Asia it was God’s will for the Gospel to come into Macedonia.
Paul had made his plan but it was God directing his steps.
This is a perfect example of God’s people making their plans but allowing God to direct their paths.
The Danger Of Making Plans Without This View Of God!
1. It allows for boasting in arrogance!
“But as it is, you boast in your arrogance …” James 4:16a
Boasting in the right thing is not bad and that would be boasting in Christ and His work. But to boast in your arrogance is to boast in yourself and in what you believe you have achieved. But the truth of the matter is that whatever we have achieved is only done by God through us. So to boast in yourself is to think more highly of yourself than you should, for we can do nothing in our own self but only through Christ who strengthens us.
2. This kind of boasting is evil
“… All such boasting is evil.” James 4:16b)
To use a phrase that one of my fine Christian college professor used to use: “It Would Behoove Us” to learn that all self promotion and boasting is evil and filled with pride. As God’s children we are called to humility - not pridefulness.
3. This kind of planning is sinful
“So it is sin to know the good and yet not do it.” James 4:17
If we know that we should conducting our planning with God’s will first and foremost in our minds and hearts but do not do it, the Bible is real clear - it is a sin.
If we are implementing our plans but unwilling to alter that course when God is trying to redirect us - it too is a sin!
How Do To Respond To The Curveballs Of Life?
1. Prepare For Life To Throw You Curveballs
We prepare for life’s curveballs by make plans based upon what we think to be God’s will. We do this through prayer as we seek God for his will to be revealed.
2. Anticipate & Relax When Unexpected Changes Take Place
Don’t get frustrated about it or worry over it just expect it to be part of the process of God, as our Good Shepherd, leading us from green pastures to green pastures.
3. Look For God’s Open Doors
Just as the Apostle Paul wanted to go into Asia to preach the Gospel but was prevented by the Holy Spirit but then at night in a vision sees a man from Macedonia asking them to come over there, concludes that God was redirecting them to go over there, so we too can expect God when he closes one door to open up another door. But we have to be looking for it in order to see it.
